Monday, November 28, 2011

Carl William Ericke, aka Uncle Bill


My uncle, Carl William Ericke, was named after his father, Carl Oscar, though everyone called him Bill. He was the youngest child of Carl and Sarah (Voegtly) Ericke, born on November 29, 1933, in Cleveland, Ohio. He was born when my mother, Nancy, was almost three years old.




Bill graduated from Redford High School, in Detroit, in 1952. He was very social and a popular classmate, as evidenced by his multiple high school yearbook photos. In his senior year in high school, Bill was chairman of the senior prom committee, vice-president of the student council and 301 club, on the inter-club dance council, and on the varsity football team. 






In 1953, Bill was a groomsman in my parent's wedding. I think the photos of Uncle Bill and his parents are very sweet and wanted to share them here since I'm not sure his children have ever seen them. They're in color and were developed for a 3D slideviewer so they are a little blurry. 




After graduation, Bill enrolled at Michigan State University. While in college, he joined the Army National Guard, and using the benefits of the GI bill, continued his studies at MSU, graduating in 1956. Since my mother, Nancy, graduated from University of Michigan in 1952, there was a bit of rivalry between the two of them during the football season. Uncle Bill would always call my mother after the MSU/Michigan game and either rub it in, or congratulate her. It was a touching moment they shared all their lives.


Before Uncle Bill married, I would remember him spending Christmas with my family in Darien, arriving on the front steps loaded down with presents. Mom reminded me when I was much older that Bill had always been extremely generous to us during those years he was single, as we were his only niece and nephews at the time. 

Beside their shared name of Carl, my grandfather and uncle have another thing in common: they both had careers at Carpenter [Steel] Technology. Grandpa Ericke started with Carpenter in 1934, eventually becoming the Detroit sales manager. Bill began working at Carpenter in 1959 and was a marketing manager when he left Carpenter in 1972. Bill moved to Reading, Pennsylvania to take this job and it's here he made his home for the next 46 years, until his death in 2005.
In the mid-1960's, Bill met his future wife, Stephanie Voytas, at Weller's, a dance club in Reading. Stephanie was a night nurse at the time, and only went out on weekend nights if she wasn't working, so it's fate that they met in the brief window of time their paths crossed. Bill asked Stephanie to dance, which she politely accepted, and the rest is history. The first song they danced to was Strangers in the Night, made famous in 1966 by Frank Sinatra.

Strangers in the night exchanging glances
Wond’ring in the night 
What were the chances we’d be sharing love 
Before the night was through

Something in your eyes was so inviting
Something in your smile was so exciting
Something in my heart told me I must have you

Strangers in the night, two lonely people
We were strangers in the night
Up to the moment when we said our first hello 

Little did we know
Love was just a glance away
A warm embracing dance away

And ever since that night we’ve been together
Lovers at first sight, in love forever
It turned out so right for strangers in the night

Love was just a glance away
A warm embracing dance away

Ever since that night we’ve been together
Lovers at first sight, in love forever
It turned out so right for strangers in the night

© EMI Music Publishing, Universal Music Publishing Group

Stephanie and Bill Ericke eloped in 1965, but then had a big church wedding a few years later, which my family attended. I even remember what I wore, right down to the blue and white hat. It was the fanciest party I had ever been to, at six years old. The newlyweds bought a house in Muhlenberg Park in 1968 and the family has lived there ever since. They raised three children: Steve, Mary, and Susan.


After he left Carpenter, Bill worked at many different companies, settling in at Bowers Marine, a large boating center where he excelled in sales. Bill worked there until his retirement in 2000, while Stephanie continued to work nights as a nurse until her retirement in 2007.


The Erickes spent summer vacations at North Wildwood, New Jersey, and on the way home would sometimes stop to visit Grandpa Ericke and my family in Connecticut. I'll never forget one summer when the Erickes came to visit and we went clamdigging. The next morning, my father insisted on making clam fritters (essentially pancakes with raw clams tossed in the batter, served with maple syrup). As we were sitting down to eat, the Erickes wisely decided to leave at that exact moment rather than partake in this rather disgusting breakfast choice. My father was very upset, but the rest of my family was envious that the Erickes got out when they did. I can just imagine their conversation in the car! 


Uncle Bill was a very private person who didn't share very much, according to his family. He was like my mother in that respect, so maybe it was genetic. Bill Ericke is greatly missed by his family and friends and on this November 29 we wish him a happy birthday.


Thursday, November 24, 2011

Nostalgic November

My mother Nancy on the left, with her brother Bill, and father Carl.
Maybe they are watching a Thanksgiving or Christmas Parade? 
I love this time of year partly because of all the opportunities for celebration. Beginning with Halloween, quickly followed by my birthday, Thanksgiving, and what seems like a sprint to Christmas and New Years, it is an extended period of time to make merry with friends and loved ones. For me, it's also an opportunity to use up my accrued vacation days which, good or bad, gives me much free time to ruminate on my life. I have to confess, though, that I'm having difficulty keeping the memories of past holidays from coming to the forefront. I'm a firm believer that change can be good, but also acknowledge that change is sometimes thrust upon us, and that it may take longer to find your new path. Be patient, I keep reminding myself. A week ago some of my good friends and co-workers lost their jobs, and I found myself affirming how much I believe in fate. Over the years I've seen how fate usually has a way of working out favorably – aside from death, of course. How could death ever be a welcome act of fate?

Looks like Thanksgiving Dinner with our neighbors on Miles Road.

Last November, the memory of my mother's death was still quite raw, so my solution was to ignore my birthday and the upcoming holidays. I spent as little time with family as possible and planned to work through the holidays. I figured it would be best for me to pretend there wasn't a Thanksgiving, or Christmas, rather than feel depressed, and then guilty, about wanting to have a good time, or possibly, gasp, even enjoying myself. I was fine with other people celebrating the holiday and being happy, I just didn't want to be there with them. Luckily, my brother who lives closest to me went on vacation with his family so it made skipping Christmas a breeze. I have to thank them for leaving, as well as for inviting me to go with them to the Caribbean. Though I was stuck in New England under blizzard conditions for several days, with two houses, two dogs, two cats, and a rabbit to care for, I was happy with my decision. What is my goal for this year? I am acknowledging the holidays and plan to participate in some small way. A small step, but in the right direction.


Lately I have been volunteering my time more than usual, to try and direct, or maybe distract, my thoughts in a more positive direction during these family-focused months. My favorite endeavor is with In2Books, an organization I've been involved with for over four years. It's a e-mentoring literacy pen pal program connected with Title 1 schools. At the start of every school year, you are matched with a student somewhere in the States (you know each other only by first names). Your student picks a book for the both of you to read, and then you write letters back and forth discussing the book. Most of the letters are very sweet, funny, and always poignant, and by the end of the year, they are very much improved. Last year I introduced this program to my company and recruited over 40 people to be pen pals. This year I've been able to get more corporate interest and exposure by adding In2Books to our Volunteer Match program. I'm incredibly thankful to have found this organization and to be involved on a one-on-one basis with a student, albeit virtual. I hope I make as big an impact on their lives as they do on mine.



A couple of weeks ago I volunteered for Junior Achievement for JA Day, a one-day assignment to teach a second grade class at a Title 1 Catholic school in Roxbury, Massachusetts. Despite the fact I've been working for an educational publisher for over 20 years and have knowledge of lesson plans, learning objectives, and core curriculum, I never imagined actually using this information in a classroom. My only interest in teaching has always been the two months vacation in the summer! Luckily, JA makes this activity easy to accomplish with their detailed teacher instruction and a multitude of activities to keep the kids engaged. I was partnered with a woman from my office who was equally as nervous and excited as I was. We couldn't have asked for a better class – the kids were amazing, bright, excited, thoughtful, disciplined, and happy we were there – as was the teacher. We were done by noon, which was plenty long enough for me. However I am looking forward to teaching again soon, and hope to find the time in the Spring to join JA Day again. Maybe first grade this time?


The other volunteer activity I've been doing actually merges my interest in genealogy with my background in photography. I am a volunteer photographer for (Find A Grave), a worldwide database of burial graves. Yes, that's right, a graves registration website.  I have always had an interest in cemeteries – growing up in Connecticut gave me ample access to small 17th century cemeteries where I could practice my grave rubbing skills. Within a week of signing up as a volunteer photographer, I had over two dozen assignments to find and photograph headstones in nearby cemeteries. After hours of strolling, squinting, and squatting to read the ancient engravings, my eyes grew tired and started playing tricks on me. Fisher wasn't a name on my list, but when I came across this stone I took a second glance. Was I seeing this correctly? Philander Fisher? Was that his name or his reputation?


A little research shows that it was a common name in the 18th and 19th centuries; one example being poet Edward Young's character Philander in his 1742 book Night Thoughts. Maybe Philander Fisher was named after this famous character?
 
By Nature's law, what may be, may be now;
There's no prerogative in human hours.
In human hearts what bolder thought can rise,
Than man's presumption on to-morrow's dawn?
Where is to-morrow? In another world.
For numbers this is certain; the reverse
Is sure to none; and yet on this perhaps,
This peradventure, infamous for lies,
As on a rock of adamant we build
Our mountain hopes, spin out eternal schemes
As we the Fatal Sisters could out-spin,
And big with life's futurities, expire.
Not ev'n Philander had bespoke his shroud,
Nor had he cause; a warning was deny'd:
How many fall as sudden, not as safe!
As sudden, though for years admonish'd home.
Of human ills the last extreme beware;
Beware, Lorenzo, a slow-sudden death.
How dreadful that deliberate surprise!
Be wise to-day; 'tis madness to defer;
Next day the fatal precedent will plead;
Thus on, till wisdom is push'd out of life.
Procrastination is the thief of time;
Year after year it steals, till all are fled,
And to the mercies of a moment leaves
The vast concerns of an eternal scene.
If not so frequent, would not this be strange?
That 'tis so frequent, this is stranger still.


Happy Thanksgiving!





Thursday, November 17, 2011

Happy Birthday To You, Grandma Sally Lou


My grandmother, Sarah Louise Voegtly Ericke was born on November 19, 1900, daughter of Nannie Hays Voegtly and Adolph Voegtly. Among the papers my family has saved all these years was a letter written by Estelle J. Bayne to my great-grandmother, Nannie, on the birth of her first child. The letter is now 111 years old and still in very good shape. Am I the only one that finds that amazing? I think of this often, especially since it was my birthday a few weeks ago and my birthday cards went right into the recycling bin (sorry everyone!). I guess I would not be considered very good at recording my own history, despite my interest in the field of genealogy.



Waynesburg, Pa.
Nov. 21st, 1900.

Dear Nan,
Helen came past this morning to tell me of your daughter. I am so glad you are getting along so nicely. I can just see you and Aud looking at it. I suspect it is the only baby girl in Pittsburg or any other place.



Ma just went into a neighbors to bring our youngster home, she is a case never satisfied unless she has company or is allowed to go some place. Babe is thinking of taking her to Charleroi next week, she has two days vacation and Saturday you see. Edna is very anxious to go.


I asked her to day if she remembered you, she said she didn't but I told her you had a little baby girl she said she wished we had one. I have been cleaning house. I have all the down stairs and one room up done. I am going to finish this week if nothing prevents. I suppose you have your girl yet, does she still have so much trouble? Poor soul.


I have an engagement at eight o'clock so I must cut this short as it is nearly that time now. Hoping this finds you getting along fine also the baby. I am yours as ever.
Estelle J. Bayne.


Sunday, November 13, 2011

Photo of the Day: The Vigeland Fountain

 

Around the completion of Vigeland Park in 1949, Eddie and Frida Ambrose
brought their son, Marty, to Oslo for a little sightseeing. 



Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Marion Christine Ambrose Benedict


Marion Benedict was the middle child and only daughter of Edwin and Frida Ambrose. She was born on November 10, 1930 in Syracuse, NY, just two years after my father. This is my favorite photo of Marion – a glamour shot that makes her look like a Norwegian movie star from the 1950's.


When I was older and realized my Aunt Marion's birthday was the day after mine, I immediately felt a special connection with her. Though we lived miles and years apart, we'd always find a little time to talk during the month of November, especially the last few years. When my parents would call me on my birthday, my parting words to them would be "don't forget to call Marion tomorrow." I doubt they needed this reminder, but it made me feel good to think about her almost sharing a birthday with me. After my mother died, Marion was a great source of comfort to me, and I dearly miss our talks.





Marion grew up in Syracuse and Detroit, graduating from Redford High School. She married the love of her life, John Stacy Benedict, on October 19, 1952, and they made Detroit their home. They were married for 43 years before his death in 1995, at the age of 63. Stacy and Marion had three children: Stacy, Sherri, and Steve. My brothers and I were fairly close in age to them and earlier this year I posted a Photo of the Day: Cousins, which showed us goofing off for the camera.

Our families didn't get together very often while we were growing up. Maybe it was because my father traveled so much for business that he didn't want to spend much time on the road. I don't know. My family lived on the East Coast for most of these years, so I guess it was a bit of a drive to Michigan, especially with three small children. "Are we there yet?"

The Benedict's had a cottage in Point Pelee, Canada, in the 1960's, and it's there they spent their summer vacations. The Point Pelee National Park is the smallest of Canada's parks, located at the southern tip of Ontario on the north shore of Lake Erie. It's referred to by Canadians as the Carolinian Zone, since the deciduous trees found there are the northern end of a belt that begins at the Carolina coast in the United States. Who knew?




Before their children were born, Marion worked for Chrysler in Detroit. Here's a page from a 1955 Chrysler brochure, just to put the time period in perspective. When the kids were old enough to go to school, Marion went back to work, first for Bendix, and then for WJBK-TV, Channel 2, which was Detroit's longtime CBS affiliate. Marion worked at Channel 2 for a long time and absolutely loved her job as the switchboard operator and receptionist.


One of her sons recently told me that one of her favorite memories working at CBS was when she was working a late afternoon shift during the Summer of '79.  Marion answered the phone to a very recognizable voice – Mickey Rooney – famous for his his film work in Babes in Arms, National Velvet, The Black Stallion, Bill and the Andy Hardy film series, opposite Judy Garland. Rooney was in Detroit for a stage play, Sugar Babies, and he called from the hotel to ask if there were a Mickey Rooney movie marathon being shown on any of the local stations. Marion, realizing it wasn't being shown on her station, pulled out her TV Guide and gave him the information. Mickey replied, "You're a doll, Marion," giving her goosebumps. A movie star, someone she watched growing up, called her "DOLL" and said her name. My cousin said the story still made her giddy 35 years later!



Marion was 80 years old when she died. I know that sounds like a long time to live, but when it's your mother, or your aunt, or your friend, it's still too early. She had been living with pain for several years, and it was a difficult time for her and her family. Marion was also a dutiful daughter, who unconditionally cared for both her parents as they aged, without much help from her two brothers. She was an amazing woman. Marion died on March 17, 2011, one day shy of the two-year anniversary of the death of her older brother, and my dad, Ed.

Marion's other son and I remarked how odd it was that the three siblings (Ed, Marion, and Marty) and my mother, all died within a span of two years. I loved his comment that maybe God didn't want to break up the sets. I do hope they are having their own family reunion now, looking down on all their orphan children, and smiling.




Sunday, November 6, 2011

Birthday, Blackout, and Berlin



Every year, my birthday falls on a very important day in history, Nov. 9. Besides my immaculate conception, it is also the day of the Northeast Blackout and the Fall of the Berlin Wall. 

The Blackout of 1965 was historic in that it affected such a wide area: from Ontario, Canada throughout New England, New York, and New Jersey. Over 30 million people were left without electricity for up to 12 hours. We were living in Darien, Connecticut, and my paternal grandparents, Eddie and Frida Ambrose, were babysitting us for several weeks while my mother joined my father on his business trip to India. We were planning on having something truly yummy for dinner (I’m just sure of it) but without an oven or stove we munched on cold sandwiches by candlelight. It wasn’t long before my grandparents slipped into their native Norwegian tongue to talk in private, as they always did. They must have been worried, but my brothers and I thought it was very exciting. Not to mention, there was still cake!

Skip ahead twenty-four years, George H.W. Bush is in office, and I can still remember watching the live coverage of East Germany opening its borders to the West for the first time since the Berlin Wall was built. People were scaling the Wall, celebrating, and toppling chunks of concrete and stone onto the ground. I was living in NYC at the time, getting ready to make the big move to Massachusetts, in awe that another historic event was taking place on my birthday. There's a great short documentary on the Berlin Wall in the public domain if you want to see what life was like back then. It certainly puts our lives today into perspective.

Friday, November 4, 2011

List #1: Ed's Movies


Consider this post a public service, courtesy of my father, Edwin R. Ambrose. My parents loved checklists. This is the first of my father's lists that I will share with you. This is by far my father's longest list, which also took him the longest to create, maybe ten or fifteen years. My parents loved movies and they loved The New York Times. For the four years my parents lived in Botswana, they missed both. When they came back to the States in 1992, they had a lot of catching up to do, so my dad started his "want to see" movie list.

This record contains more than 300 movies that I expect were mainly recommended by The New York Times. My dad added movies by his favorite directors (Malle, Rudolph, Kurosawa), and actors (Lombard, Dietrich), and authors (Sturges). He would update this list often, with his little Macintosh computer, adding new movies and deleting ones they'd seen and wouldn't want to see again. This was long before Netflix, back in the olden days of video stores. If they wanted to watch a movie they'd drive over to the only video store in Edgartown and look through the VHS or DVD choices. 

If you love foreign films you've hit the jackpot here. My only complaint is that there are very few chick flicks on this lineup. When my mother would go to the store to pick up a movie, or if she were browsing her local library shelves, she would feel obligated to bring "the list" with her. You see, my father would only watch movies on "the list". He would sometimes try and sit through a movie that wasn't on "the list", but he usually wouldn't last that long – unless he was watching a movie with the grandchildren – and he'd eventually retreat to the living room alone to read a book. Or was it The New York Times?

Ed's Movie List
  1. 29th Street - 1991
  2. 35 Up - 1991
  3. Afterglow - 1997
  4. Amarcord - 1973  Fellini
  5. An Angel at my Table - 1990
  6. Andrei Rublev - 1966
  7. Angel Dust (Jpn) - 1994
  8. Animals Are Beautiful People - 1974
  9. Antonia’s Line - 1995
  10. Ascension pour L'Echafaud (Elevator to the Gallows) - 1958 Malle
  11. Autobiography of Miss Jane Pittman - 1974
  12. Autumn Tale (Fr) - 1998 Eric Rohmer 
  13. Babe - 1995
  14. Backtrack (Catchfire) - 1990
  15. Ballad of Narayama, The - 1983
  16. Il quartetto Basileus - 1983
  17. Battle of Little Jo, The - 1993
  18. Before Sunrise - 1995
  19. Before The Rain - 1994 Manchevski
  20. Berlin Alexanderplatz - 1980
  21. Beyond Rangoon - 1995
  22. Beyond the Clouds - 1995
  23. Birgit Haas Must Be Killed - 1981
  24. Black Orpheus - 1959
  25. Black Robe - 1991
  26. Blood and Wine - 1996
  27. Blood Simple - 1984
  28. Bob le Flambeur - 1956
  29. Bopha!  - 1993
  30. Boudu Saved From Drowning - 1932
  31. Breathless - 1960
  32. Brother From Another Planet - 1984 Sayles
  33. Brother's Keeper - 1992
  34. Burnt By The Sun - 1994
  35. Calcutta - 1969 Malle
  36. Camouflage - 1977 Zanussi
  37. Carmen - 1984
  38. Casino - 1995
  39. Cat and Mouse - 1975
  40. Caught - 1996 Robert M. Young
  41. Celebration, The - 1998 Thomas Vinterberg
  42. Character - 1997 Van Diem
  43. Chikamatsu Monagatari (The Crucified Lovers) - 1954
  44. Children of Paradise, The - 1944
  45. Chloe In The Afternoon - 1972 Rohmer
  46. Choose Me - 1984 Alan Rudolph
  47. City of Hope - 1991 John Sayles
  48. Claire's Knee - 1970 Rohmer
  49. Close to Eden - 1991 Nikita Mikhalkov
  50. Contempt - 1963 Godard
  51. Couch in New York, A - 1996
  52. Vacas (Cows) - 1992
  53. Cross My Heart (Fr) - 1990 
  54. Crossing Fields - 1997 James Rosenow
  55. Crossing Guard, The - 1995
  56. Daughters of the Dust  - 1991 Julie Dash
  57. Dazed and Confused - 1993
  58. Dead Calm - 1989
  59. Death and the Maiden - 1994 Polanski
  60. Deconstructing Harry - 1997
  61. Dersu Uzala - 1975 Kurosawa
  62. Designated Mourner, The - 1997
  63. Devil in a Blue Dress - 1995
  64. Diary of a Lost Girl - 1929 Pabst
  65. Dick - 1999
  66. Dieu Seul Me Voit (Only God Sees Me) - 1998
  67. Dr. Bethune - 1990
  68. Dreamlife of Angels, The - 1998 Erich Zonca
  69. Floating Weeds (Jpn) - 1959
  70. Eat Drink Man Woman - 1994
  71. Eel, The - 1997 Imamura
  72. El Mariachi - 1992
  73. El Norte - 1983
  74. End of Violence, The - 1997
  75. Eternity and a Day - 1998 Angelopoulos
  76. Europa, Europa - 1990
  77. Eve’s Bayou - 1997
  78. Exterminating Angel, The - 1962 Buñuel
  79. Eye of God - 1997
  80. Fairy Tale: A True Story - 1997
  81. Farewell My Concubine - 1993
  82. Fearless - 1993
  83. Fierce Creatures - 1997
  84. Fire Within, The - 1963 Malle
  85. Flirting With Disaster - 1996
  86. Following - 1998 Nolan
  87. Gambler, The - 1997 M. Gambon
  88. Gas Food Lodging - 1992 Allison Anders
  89. General, The - 1998 John Boorman
  90. Ghost and the Darkness,The - 1996 Stephen Hopkins
  91. Godfather I & II & III
  92. Grand Illusion - 1937 Renoir
  93. Hairdresser's Husband, The - 1990
  94. Hanging Garden, The - 1997
  95. Happiness - 1998
  96. Hasards du coincidence (Fr) - 1998
  97. Hav Plenty - C.S. Cherot - 1997
  98. Hearts of Darkness - 1991
  99. Henry Fool - 1997
  100. High and Low - 1963
  101. Home and the World - 1984
  102. Hotel de Love - 1996 Craig Rosenberg
  103. How To Make an American Quilt - 1996
  104. Ice Storm, The - 1997
  105. Idiot, The - 1951 Kurosawa
  106. Ikiru - 1951 Kurosawa
  107. Illuminata - 1998 John Turturro
  108. In the Company of Men - 1997
  109. In The Name of the Father - 1993
  110. In The Soup - 1992 Alexandre Rockwell
  111. Insomnia (Norw.) - 1997
  112. Intervista - 1987 Fellini
  113. Into The West - 1992
  114. Inventing the Abbotts - 1997 Pat O’Connor
  115. Irma Vep (Fr) - 1996 Olivier Assayas
  116. It's All True - 1993 Orson Welles
  117. Jeanne and the Perfect Guy (Fr) - 1998
  118. Jefferson in Paris - 1995
  119. Jesus of Montreal - 1989
  120. King of Masks, The - 1997 Chinese
  121. King of the Hill - 1993 Soderbergh
  122. L.A. Confidential - 1997
  123. La Vie de Boheme - 1992 Kaurismaki
  124. Lacombe, Lucien - 1974 Malle
  125. Last Days of Disco - 1998
  126. Last Seduction, The - 1994
  127. Liebestraum - 1991
  128. Life and Nothing But - 1989
  129. Life Is Sweet - 1990 Mike Leigh
  130. Lion In Winter, The - 1968
  131. Little Mermaid - 1989 Disney
  132. Little Women - 1933
  133. Live Flesh - 1997 Pedro Almodovar
  134. Living End, The - 1992 Gregg Araki
  135. Living in Oblivion - 1995
  136. Lola Montes - 1955
  137. Los Olvidados - 1950
  138. Love and Anarchy - 1973 Wertmuller
  139. Lovers of the Arctic Circle - 1998 Medem
  140. Lumiere and Company - 1995
  141. M - 1931 Lang
  142. Madame Rosa - 1977
  143. Magnificent Seven,The - 1960
  144. Man For All Seasons - 1966
  145. Man Who Shot Liberty Valance, The - 1962 Ford
  146. Manon of the Spring - 1986
  147. Map of the Human Heart - 1993
  148. Masculine Feminine - 1966 Godard
  149. Match Factory Girl, The - 1990
  150. Matewan - 1987 John Sayles
  151. Meantime - 1984 Mike Leigh
  152. Menace II Society - 1993
  153. Mephisto - 1981
  154. Metropolis  - 1927 Lang
  155. Metropolitan - 1990
  156. Midnight Clear, A - 1992
  157. Midwife’s Tale, A - 1995
  158. Million Dollar Hotel - 2000 Wenders
  159. Miracle of Morgan's Creek - 1944 Sturges
  160. Misery - 1990
  161. Mission Impossible - 1990
  162. Mississippi Mermaid (restored) - 1969 Truffaut
  163. Moderns, The - 1988 Alan Rudolph
  164. Moebius (Argentina) - 1996
  165. Mondo (Fr) - 1995
  166. Mongolian Tale (China) - 1997
  167. Mrs. Parker and the Vicious Circle - 1994 Alan Rudolph
  168. Music of Chance, The - 1993
  169. Music Teacher, The - 1988
  170. My Father's Glory - 1990
  171. My Mother's Castle - 1990
  172. My Mother’s Courage - 1995
  173. Nenette and Boni - 1996
  174. Napoleon - 1927
  175. Nasty Girl - 1990
  176. Nazarin - 1959 Bunuel
  177. Newton Boys, The - 1998
  178. Next Stop Wonderland - 1998
  179. Night On Earth - 1991
  180. Nightmare Before Christmas, The - 1993
  181. Nixon - 1995
  182. Now Voyager - 1942
  183. Ossessione - 1943
  184. Official Story - 1985
  185. Once Were Warriors - 1994
  186. One False Move - 1992 Carl Franklin
  187. Opposite of Sex - 1998 Don Roos
  188. Orlando - 1992 Sally Potter
  189. Oscar and Lucinda - 1997
  190. Overland Stage Raiders - 1938
  191. Oyster and the Wind, The - 1997 Walter Lima
  192. Paris is Burning - 1990
  193. Party, The - 1968 Blake Edwards
  194. Pascali's Island - 1988
  195. Passion in the Desert - 1997
  196. Passion of Joan of Arc, The - 1928
  197. Pelle the Conqueror - 1987
  198. According to Pereira - 1995 Marcello Mastroianni
  199. Persuasion - 1995
  200. Phantom India - 1969 Malle
  201. Pierrot Le Fou - 1965 Godard
  202. Playing by Heart - 1998 Carroll
  203. Pope of Greenwich Village - 1984
  204. Pretty Baby - 1978 Malle
  205. Prisoner of the Mountains - 1996 Sergei Bodrov
  206. Prix de Beaute (Beauty Prize) - 1930
  207. Queen of Hearts - 1989
  208. Red Corner - 1997
  209. Red River - 1948
  210. Red Sorghum - 1987
  211. Regret to Inform - 1998 Sonneborn
  212. Reincarnation of Golden Lotus,The - 1989 
  213. Return of Martin Guerre, The - 1982
  214. Restoration - 1995
  215. Rio Bravo -  - 1959 Hawks
  216. Rough Magic - 1995 Clara Peploe
  217. Rules of the Game, The - 1939
  218. Search For One-Eye Jimmy - 1994 Kass
  219. Secret Garden, The - 1993
  220. Secrets and Lies - 1996 Mike Leigh
  221. Self-Made Hero, A - 1996
  222. Sergeant Bilko - 1996
  223. Seven Beauties - 1975 Wertmuller
  224. Seven Samurai - 1954 Kurosawa
  225. Seventh Seal, The - 1957 Bergman
  226. Shadow, The - 1994
  227. Sharaku - 1995
  228. Shoot The Piano Player - 1960 Truffaut
  229. Short Cuts - 1993 Altman
  230. Simple Plan, A - 1998
  231. Single Girl, A - 1995 Benoit Jacquoit
  232. Six Degrees of Separation - 1993 
  233. Small Change - 1976 Truffaut
  234. Smiles of a Summer Night - 1955 Bergman 
  235. Soldier of Orange - 1977 Verhoeven
  236. Somewhere in Time (Mackinac Island) - 1980
  237. Sophie - 1992
  238. South Central - 1992
  239. Stangers On A Train - 1951 Hitchcock
  240. Stolen Kisses - 1968
  241. Story of Qui Ju, The - 1992
  242. Strictly Ballroom - 1992 Baz Luhrmann
  243. Striking Distance - 1993 Willis
  244. Sunday - 1997 D. Suchet
  245. Sweet Hereafter - 1997
  246. Swindle, The (Fr) - 1997
  247. Swing Time - 1936 Stevens
  248. Swoon - 1992
  249. Taste of Cherry, A - 1997 Kiarostami
  250. Tender Mercies - 1983 
  251. Testament (Fr) - 2004
  252. Testamento (Napomuceno's Will) - 1997
  253. That Old Feeling - 1997 Carl Reiner
  254. Thief (Princess) and the Cobbler, The - 1993
  255. Thief of Paris, The - 1967 Malle
  256. Three Seasons (Vietnamese) - 1999
  257. Tree of the Wooden Clogs - 1978
  258. To Kill A Mockingbird - 1962
  259. Tombstone - 1993
  260. Touch of Evil, A - 1995
  261. Tous Les Matins du Monde - 1991
  262. Traveler, The - 1974
  263. Trouble in Mind - 1985 Alan Rudolph
  264. True Romance - 1993
  265. Twilight - 1998 Paul Newman
  266. Ulysses’ Gaze - 1995 Angelopolous
  267. Umberto D. - 1952
  268. Un Coeur En Hiver - 1992
  269. Unstrung Heroes - 1995
  270. Untouchables- 1987
  271. Vanishing, The - 1988
  272. Vanya on 42nd Street - 1994
  273. Variete (Jealousy) - 1925
  274. Venus Beaute (Institut) (Fr) - 1999
  275. Very Private Affair, A - 1962 Malle
  276. Vincent, Francois, Paul & the Others - 1974 Sautet
  277. Virgin Spring, The - 1960 Bergman
  278. Viridiana - 1961 Bunuel
  279. Visions of Light - 1992
  280. Viva Maria! - 1965 Malle
  281. Wages of Fear, The - 1953
  282. Walk on the Moon, A- 1999
  283. Waterdance, The - 1992
  284. Wedding Banquet, The - 1993
  285. Western- 1997
  286. Westfront 1918 - 1930 Pabst
  287. What's Love Got To Do With It - 1993
  288. Wild Bunch,The - 1969 Peckinpah
  289. Wilde - 1997
  290. Wind - 1992
  291. Wind in the Willows (Mr. Toad's Wild Ride) - 1996
  292. Windhorse (Tibetan) - 1998
  293. Winds of Courage - 1995
  294. Wings of the Dove, The - 1997
  295. Witness - 1985
  296. Woman in the Dunes (Jpn) - 1964 Tashgahara
  297. Wyatt Earp - 1994
  298. Zazie Dans le Metro - 1960 Malle
Classic Movies


Carole Lombard
  • Mr. & Mrs. Smith - 1941 
  • Bolero - 1934
  • Hands Across the Table - 1935 
  • In Name Only - 1939 
  • Made For Each Other - 1939 
  • My Man Godfrey - 1936
  • Nothing Sacred - 1937 
  • The Princess Comes Across -1936 
  • Vigil in the Night - 1940 
Marlene Dietrich
  • Destry Rides Again - 1939 
  • Foreign Affair, A - 1948 
  • Morocco - 1930 
  • Shaghai Express - 1932 

Preston Sturges
  • Easy Living - 1937 
  • Great McGinty - 1940 
  • Hail the Conquering Hero - 1944 
  • If I Were a King - 1938 
  • Imitation of Life - 1934 
  • Never Say Die - 1939 

Monday, October 31, 2011

Happy Halloween, 1960


If you're offended by this photo, please read my last post, A Case of Race. I wanted to put this photo in context so I posted a story about my parents and the lengths to which they went to fight racism. Though black face was losing it's popularity mid-century due to the civil rights movement, it was still showing up in mainstream America in 1960. I searched online for photos of black face during that time and found several, including a Cub Scout group in black face.

I remember finding these photos many years ago and asking my parents what they were thinking. My father was upset that I insinuated it had anything to do with race. My mother said it was a different time then, it was just a costume, and it was no big deal. Granted, growing up in the 60's was totally different than it is now – it was not uncommon to see black jockeys on neighborhood lawns. I can also be certain that my parents would not have thought this was a good costume choice for Halloween, 2011. Knowing them as I did, and knowing where their hearts were then, and where their hearts continued to be until their death, I can't condemn their choice of costume here, nor can I pretend the photo doesn't exist.

If there's one thing I've learned by writing this blog: you can't rewrite history.